My name is Caroline Millet. I am a former Matchmaker, former Recruiter, and a Certified NLP and Life Coach.

I've turned this experience into three focuses all rooted in the same idea: helping you align yourself (your identity) into the life you imagine.


  • Dating Burnout: If you are feeling jaded, cynical, or hopeless about ever finding a partner and are thinking about giving up, I offer a program that will keep you grounded, steady, clear on your journey to love, no matter what happens along the way.

  • Heartbreak: If you are recovering from a break up or divorce and are not sure what's next, and are sick and tired of feeling terrible, I help you not only recover faster, but build a strong foundation on which you build your next chapter. This can be a very exciting time- it just takes a shift in how you approach it.

  • Job Loss: If you identify with your job or company and now are unsure of how to manage the uncertainty- of your day, weeks, or if the people on Slack were even your friends since you haven't heard from them since, I work with you on who you are and how you manage this uncertain time without letting it erode your confidence.

In short, I help people stop waiting for someone else's permission to live their dreams.


Over the past 30 years, I’ve experienced just about every stage of love and loss myself: dating, serious relationships, cohabitation, cross-country moves for love (and back again), marriage, divorce, single parenting, starting over in both career and life, blindside breakups, and being laid off from jobs I didn't even enjoy, eventually learning to embrace the things that caused my life to re-direct that many times- the things I had been beating myself up for, but are actually my super powers.


I’ve made mistakes, learned lessons, and now help my clients shorten their learning curve so they can heal, grow, and thrive.


For those who are single and searching, my e-course It’s About You and my individual coaching transformations will help you reset your approach, clarify what you truly want in a partner, and stop wasting time on relationships that aren’t aligned.


For those recovering from a breakup, divorce, or job loss, I offer coaching that helps you let go of old patterns and beliefs that no longer serve you, rebuild confidence, and design a new vision for your next chapter. I know firsthand how overwhelming it can feel to start over- I built a new life from nothing (and I mean nothing)-and I want to show you that you can do it, too.


My work is a hybrid of emotional healing and practical skills that help you stop repeating painful patterns and start choosing aligned, meaningful connection or nothing at all.

You do not need surface level advice. You need a permanent toolkit.

I teach you exactly how to create it with that is already within you.


If you’re ready to move forward, I’d love to support you. Please reach out to book a free initial session and see if working together makes sense for you.

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