Stop letting dating run your life.

Build clarity, steadiness, and self-trust so your life moves forward, whether you are single or partnered.

If dating has become exhausting, confusing, or quietly discouraging, you are not failing. You are burned out from carrying too much weight in one area of your life.

I help people who want love stop organizing their entire sense of progress, worth, and happiness around dating, so they can build a grounded, fulfilling life and approach relationships from a place of clarity instead of pressure.

Dating burnout does not come from “doing it wrong.”

It comes from:

Putting your life on hold while you wait for the right person

Measuring your progress by attention, matches, or momentum

Losing yourself trying to make something work

Carrying the pressure of “this needs to lead somewhere” into every interaction

Over time, dating stops being one part of your life and starts feeling like the thing everything else revolves around.

That is where exhaustion sets in.

The solution is not to try harder, date more, or optimize yourself.

The solution is to recenter your life, so dating becomes an addition, not a rescue mission.

When your life feels stable, meaningful, and self-directed:

• You date with more discernment

• You tolerate less misalignment

• You stop over-investing too quickly

• You move forward whether or not dating is going well

This is the work I do.

I am Caroline Millet, a former white-glove Matchmaker and certified NLP and Life Coach.

After years of working with hundreds and hundred of daters, I saw the same pattern again and again: the people who struggled most were not lacking options, effort, or insight. They were letting dating carry too much emotional weight.

My work is not about finding a soulmate or fixing you.

It's about helping you build a life that is not on hold, develop a permanent toolkit for self-trust and emotional steadiness, and approach dating from a place of alignment rather than urgency.

Book a free breakthrough session.

This is a real conversation, not a pitch.

You will leave with clarity, direction, and a concrete next step, whether or not we work together. I look forward to connecting with you.

"My experience with Caroline was nothing more than fantastic I felt she was very locked into our session with a lot of personalized attention during and after the session. There are a lot of great takeaways which she gave me which I can use directly to improve my dating and love journey." - Jason, 37

"I was so down after my marriage ended- I felt like a failure. No matter where I turned, people were giving me terrible advice. I felt stuck, like I could not move past who I was and what my life should look like and it was all gone now. I thought coaches were a scam, but after my first free session I knew Caroline could help me. Not only did she help me heal, she actually got me excited about my future and what it could look like and how I go about making it come true. I'm forever grateful to her." - Greg, 44

"When Caroline was my Matchmaker, she also was my best friend. I could count on her to give support and the tough love I needed to stop repeating patterns and finally open myself to men who were more suited to me. I've been married for three blissful years now! I will always be grateful to Caroline for not taking the easy way out with me and just setting me up on dates." - Teresa, 37

"The first time Caroline gave me an 'assignment' I balked- I didn't hire her to make me do work! But, after reflecting on her questions I had to admit I was looking at my past the wrong way and focusing on the wrong things. I should have trusted her sooner." - Randall, 42

"After completing Caroline's e-course I feel like I know myself so much better. I didn't like all of it, but I learned from every step and I feel more confident now that I won't dismiss a potential partner because I was focusing on the wrong things. I feel more equipped than I ever have." - Melissa, 54

"Caroline’s coaching had a profound impact on my life. From the start, she actively helped me organize my scattered thoughts and desires, which allowed me to better understand and express my emotions. Beyond online dating apps, Caroline encouraged me to explore new social settings, like local clubs and sports, which I hadn’t considered before. She offered to review my dating app profiles and gave helpful suggestions for first dates.

Her approach focuses on achieving full congruence, ensuring that all aspects of your life - personal, professional, and romantic - align with who you truly are and what you want. Through her sessions and exercises, I didn’t just feel the change; I became more congruent with each step. Though the journey was challenging and required a lot of work, Caroline was there every step of the way, guiding me toward becoming the best version of myself.

If you’re ready to make a real change, find clarity, and meet someone who truly aligns with you - as dating is ultimately about knowing yourself and seeking the complement - I wholeheartedly recommend Caroline. Her expertise and dedication are unmatched." - Daniel, 27

"The way I feel about myself and my life from before I met Caroline to after our program completed is a complete 180. I also am not sure if anyone has listened to me so intently and understood me so well before, which is weird to realize. If you're going through it- either a breakup or just being down about finding your forever person or not knowing what direction your life is going next, just book the free session with Caroline. You have nothing to lose just by trying. I'm glad I did!" - Nora, 29

"After my engagement ended, I was not sure what I wanted to do next. I wasn't sure of anything. I only knew I didn't want to feel the way I was feeling. Caroline helped me rediscover and define what I wanted for my life and create a plan of how to get there while supporting me all along the way with check-ins and reminders. I felt like I had a really awesome, smart aunt devoted to making sure my life is going well. I can't imagine where I would be if I had tried to do this all by myself." - Emma, 31

"Caroline is the definition of tough, but kind love- the perfect amount of pushback I needed. The sessions I have had with her are sometimes a little emotional, but I always log off feeling better than I did before." - Edward, 47

"When my mom gave me the 6 Steps course as a graduation gift, I thought she was nuts. I was focused on my career, but I had just ended a 3-yr relationship. She told me to save it for when I feel ready to date again and do the course first. I am so glad I didn't ignore her advice. The course kept me from wasting my time and chasing the wrong guys. I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and he is not like anyone else I would have dated, but I had no idea a relationship could be so great. If you are not sure if you should try it, don't make the mistake I almost did and think you don't need it. Everyone can learn more about themselves- just try it! You won't regret it!" - Hannah, 27

"I started working with Caroline when my marriage of 14 years ended. I had totally lost sight of who I was and what I wanted for my life over those years. She guided me gently through assignments that helped me create a whole new life that is closely tied to who I really am and the things that make me happy. I feel secure and confident now and stronger than ever! I don't know where I would be right now if I had not met her." - Patricia, 49